Power Exchange

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I don't delve deeply enough into the intricacies of the Dom and Sub dynamic. A symbiotic relationship that is built on the premise of consent, trust and safety.

The “Dynamic”, also known as power exchange is literally that, one person has the power and the other willingly submits and relinquishes control.

For example, if I give you a task or a command, I expect you to complete it. Finishing the task or following the command may earn you a reward, or you simply get immense gratification from pleasing me—a reward in itself.

Maybe I'll make you cum again and again, until you can barely move. Or maybe you deserve to have your ass spanked until it's red raw. Maybe I'll eat your pussy until you're practically crying or maybe your punishment will be to write lines.

Power exchange is a complex dynamic and it's about way more than just sexy stuff.

Imagine a love that's rooted in safety and within that container, you'd easily hand over control to a partner who cares about you. It makes them happy to submit to you and also be taken care of.

Being submissive is a need for some. Contrasting from a busy everyday life of having “Too much” control.

Submissives find solace in wanting to please. To be obedient. To be led. To be taken. Claimed. Commanded and cared for.

Dominance is not a need for control, it's about leading your submissive with love. A Dominant doesn't raise their hand out of anger, a true Dom cares about their submissive’s well-being and ensuring their needs are met.

Do certain submissives like to be choked? Spanked? Slapped? Used like a fuck toy? Sure. But, all of these aspects are elements of a connection that's rooted in pleasure, intimacy and safety.

Power exchange is often misunderstood. Many people assume that Doms force their submissives to perform tasks and follow commands. Without understanding the nuance that submissives often enjoy being told what to do.

If I command you to, “Open your mouth”, and I slide my cock inside. Doing what I ask and making me feel good may be your reward.

If a praise kink drives you, positive affirmations like “Good girl” and “I'm so proud of you” are enough motivation.

Want to build good habits or set your partner tasks? That's a sexy thought.

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